April 06, 2006

finally here!

On Monday, March 27th, Dave and I went to my regular OB appointment at 3:30pm. The doctor checked me and I told her I had been cramping off and on throughout the day. When she checked me, I was 2-3 cm dilated and 80% effaced. She suggested we go to Labor & Delivery to get monitored to see if there was any progresssion and they would make the decision there as to whether or not I should stay.

When we got to L&D, we were put into a triage room to be checked and monitored. Baby was doing great and I was progressing slightly. I could definitely feel some contractions now. After about 2 hours, the doctor said that he'd like to keep us overnight. I actually said that I would prefer to labor at home for a while if he thought we were moving slowly instead of just laying in a hospital room while not much was happening.

Dave and I grabbed some take out and went home to eat in front of the TV. I gulped down some food and really started to feel some contractions... so we started timing things. I labored at home for a few hours before deciding that the pain was getting pretty intense and maybe we should go in. So we called the doctor and he said to come right in. Upon getting there, we were immediately put into a labor and delivery room.

at this time I was a little over 4 cm dilated, 90% effaced.. baby was doing great. Contractions were definitely more painful and my pelvic floor was excruciating. We got the epidural started at this point and I started to feel better. For a little while. The epidural wasnt strong enough after a while and I was feeling so much pressure in my pelvic floor. They came in and gave me something different/more and I started to feel better... for a little while.

I labored for about 10 more hours not progressing past 5-6 cm dilation and the baby wasnt moving down. After about 15 hours of labor it was decided I needed a c-section to get the baby out. I was whisked into an OR room, with Dave and during the procedure the doctor said that my pelvic bone structure was preventing the baby from moving into my vaginal canal and this was evidently the only way he was going to come out. 20 minutes later (and me not feeling a thing) Alexander Fox was born at 11:54 am on March 28th. 7 pounds, 10 ounces, 20 inches long. I was in tears and they immediately brought him to me and Dave for kisses and Dave was able to be with him and cut the cord. Dave also helped weigh him and give him his first bath and take care of him while I was recovering from the surgical procedure.

He is so beautiful and amazing and we are so incredibly happy.

ps.. think it was the eggplant parm??????

Posted by guruliz at April 6, 2006 01:16 PM
Comments

Lizzie,

He's just gorgeous and you and Dave are going to be the most amazing parents. I know I haven't seen you guys in many many moons, but I think of you both often and wish your new family the best.

Sarah

Posted by: Sarah at April 6, 2006 02:01 PM

we miss you, Sarah! Thanks.. we're trying the best we can to learn this parent stuff!

Posted by: Lizzie at April 6, 2006 08:40 PM

CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!!!!
He is totally gorgous and perfect and delish!!!!! I cant wait until our boys get to meet and play together....when we get there or you get here (our big boys can play also, the two daves!!!!).
Your story sounds exactly like mine,at 37 weeks my BP went up and a had a bit of protein in my urine so at 38weeks I was induced all going well progressing great dilating like a champ and 7hours in they tell me I have no choice but for an epidural (I didnt want one, but it keeps your bp down)and "bang" thats the killer,sitting doing nothing all dillation stopped aand 6 hours later its a c-section!!!But Welcome to the bikini scar club...I hated the pain and the scar at first, couldnt look at it, but mum said to me "you have to love that scar and wear it proudly, thats where your baby came out, thats the sacrifice you made for him." And now I am proud of it!!!! Are you breastfeeding? That can be hard after a ceaser, but if you are all I can say is keep trying and get a lactation consultant if you need.
Again congratulations to you both and Liz, sleep when the baby sleeps!!! The best advice you can ever be given!!! Oh and dont lift anything heavyer than your baby for 6months...mwah, mwah and butterfly kisses for the boy.

Posted by: Phoebe at April 6, 2006 11:13 PM

Liz, Alexander is beautiful and I am so happy for you and Dave. You are going to be the best parents ever! I'm sending lots of hugs and lovin to the three of you...

Posted by: Traci at April 7, 2006 12:24 PM

My Nephew is the cutest little boy in the world!!!! I can't wait till I can hold & Kiss him. Hope he likes his bear Auntie Jen bought for him. Hope to visit soon, send lots & lots of pictures. Love you all.

The best Aunt you will know,
Auntie Jen!

Posted by: Auntie Jen at April 7, 2006 06:10 PM

I only "know" you guys from your blog and only pop in on occation when I visit Jeni's blog.
Never the less, I have to say congratulations and what a cutie Alexander is!

Posted by: laura at April 15, 2006 01:11 AM